Don’t kill my vibe! Why? Because I told you so, and that’s good enough for me. We are not supposed to rub our successes in people’s faces, it’s not becoming, not mature. Yet the vast majority
of people feel the need to rub your failure in your face before even giving you a chance. Yet is it even their chance to give you? 9/10 times not really. Most of your decisions are yours and although you shouldn’t gloat people think its proper to tell you what you can’t do, why you cant and why you’re an idiot. Often all while smiling in your face and throwing “but”s in there. Fakeness.
A year ago I was anti social, loner, in an unhealthy relationship, deep depression, head hung to the
ground, searching for my meaning, my calling. I had some great biz ideas and was almost done all paperwork to start culinary school. “Why don’t you get go to school for a real career. Get a useful degree like a business degree”. One signed document away, I gave it up, and any faith in myself. Fast forward to a couple of months ago, past plenty of mess, reclaiming of my independence, finding of myself. My real calling and business plan came to life, I saw possibility and said I am going to leap! I sat down and had lunch with said doubter who at one time was the only opinion that meant anything in my life. What I realized…
His opinion no longer held any merit. His negativity did not sway my excitement about my vision. I listened to “I really would hate to see you and T ( my son ) in a bad spot… Are you sure? If we were together I wouldn’t allow …” And I stayed smiling, my excitement for my vision untouched. Two Months later both of my businesses have taken off. Booming actually. I am the happiest I have ever
been in my life. I am no longer socially awkward, I’m a social butterfly yet never fake. Im always me, Just Chels and people love it. And for those who don’t I’m sorry you feel that way. I love myself, my life. I sleep. I smile! I answer to no one except for myself. I am my own Boss and that means I push myself for the things I believe in when and how I choose to. My Mondays feel like my Fridays, even though I work harder then ever in my life. And on a side note when I stopped searching for love it found me.
How and Why? Because I had a dream and had the courage to go for it. I leapt blindly in
my own faith. I held my head up and believed in myself!
My point in telling this story is that maybe there’s someone out there that needs to lift their head, that may see themselves in me or my story. Maybe someone will get confirmation to go for it. “It” being whatever that passion is inside you that you are scared to go for. You have one life to live so LIVE it already! Be fearless! Just GO GO GO!
Then look back and say “Told U SO” to the haters. Stick your tongue out as well if you like.
P.E.A.C.E & Much Luv,